Meet the Purposebility Collective

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Every celebration is a countdown. I climbed one hundred floors at Teega Condo and felt it: the step passes and is gone. Diamonds and trash lie everywhere. What I pick up, I multiply. Legacy is not accumulation but flow. What stops with me dies. What moves through me lives on.
The deepest leadership moments are not when people applaud you. They are when someone you love looks at you with disbelief and asks, “Why did you do that?” And you have to stay long enough, close enough, consistently enough, that one day they understand without needing your explanation.
Death is easy because ending is fast. Living is hard because it demands attention, repair, and the courage to stay when a shortcut is available. A disposable world trains our hands for interruption, not endurance. So I keep returning to the same warning label: choosing to live is a daily decision.
I realised that growth often begins where dignity feels threatened. Feeling dumb, bored, or uncomfortable is not failure, it is formation. Weakness precedes strength. Silence restores what effort exhausts. Discipline, when rooted in love, becomes a guardrail, not a wound. Leadership, like parenting, begins by choosing long-term safety over short-term comfort.
I used to think skipping class was about impatience. Now I see it was about judgment. About learning when staying added value and when leaving quietly was more honest. Leadership feels similar. Comfort is usually louder. Clarity is quieter. Only time reveals which choice actually carried weight.
A year does not end when the calendar says so. It ends when you leave the people who matter most. Time is counted in days, but lived in meaning. A full day is not measured by output, but by alignment. Loving people sometimes means knowing when to stop explaining, before you damage what you are trying to protect.