In the past, marriages endured longer, but today’s culture, with its emphasis on self-love and individualism, often treats relationships as disposable. The notion of “just take care of yourself” and “you come first” can be harmful to long-term commitments. In a consumerist society, the mentality of throwing things away when they break—including marriages—has become prevalent.
Sometimes, disruption is the invitation. Evan got sick. I cancelled meetings. Slowed down. Watched him sleep. And realized I barely knew him. Not because I didn’t care, but because I didn’t pause. Your best moments might not come from the plan. They might be hidden in the interruption.
