I found myself lost in thought while jogging. The evening air was crisp after a hectic day with family and kids in Singapore, filled with a sense of possibility, and my mind drifted back to a conversation I’d had yesterday. I had spoken with a young woman who has pursued her studies with relentless dedication—from a bachelor’s degree to a master’s, a postgraduate certificate, and now contemplating a doctorate. Coming from a financially stable family, she is free from the usual concerns of supporting herself or her family. Yet, she’s uncertain about this next step, worried by a friend’s remark that her life is becoming a “one-way street” of constant study.
To me, her journey sounded like a gift—the freedom to pursue knowledge for its own sake. I asked her what truly drives her, and she shared how much she enjoyed a recent practicum as a lecturer, where she challenged norms and inspired students. “Welcome to one of the most fulfilling roles,” I told her, “If you’re passionate about changing lives, teaching might be your calling.”
The Power of Belief
Years ago, I encountered a young woman in need of direction, a moment that left a lasting impact on me. A mother had approached me, worried about her daughter’s self-esteem and future. The young woman had limited academic qualifications and felt adrift, unsure of her place in the world. I offered her a professional diploma program, designed not necessarily as a bridge to university but as a foundation to help her build confidence.
Despite initial setbacks, I fought to get her diploma recognized, and eventually, she was admitted to university. She graduated, built a family, and went on to live a fulfilling life. Stories like this—where one small step changes a life—hold far more meaning to me than producing top students or achieving accolades. It’s about helping others see and believe in their own potential.
It’s moments like these that remind me of the real purpose behind teaching—to empower and uplift, one life at a time.
Parenting and Reflection: A Journey of Adaptability
Reflecting on her journey led me to think about my own season of life, particularly as a parent. Parenting, I’ve found, is one of life’s greatest tests of adaptability. My three children each have distinct personalities, which has taught me to abandon any one-size-fits-all approach. I’m learning to observe, adapt, and truly listen to what they need, rather than imposing my own ideals. This process requires deep reflection, constant learning, and a readiness to adjust my approach over and over again.
Parenting, like teaching, is a journey of mutual growth. Each child has been a teacher in their own right, showing me how to grow and adapt alongside them. I am reminded every day that our roles as educators and parents are intrinsically linked—we are here not to mold them into our vision, but to help them become who they are meant to be.
The Heart of an Educator: Redefining the Role
Whether as a teacher, strategist, or mentor, I am, at heart, an educator. My purpose isn’t fame or personal gain; it’s about making a difference. Recently, I’ve been demonstrating this by coaching entrepreneurs, showing my team the power of clarity and confidence. My goal is to empower a generation of educators who will, in turn, inspire the next.
In our field, it’s easy to stay within the classroom, focused on students, parents, and administration. But I encourage my team to reach beyond the school environment, to connect with different industries, and gain new perspectives. This openness will deepen their confidence and broaden the ways they can contribute to students’ lives. When educators step outside their comfort zones, they inspire that same courage in their students.
At Stellar Education Group, we aim to cultivate a learning culture grounded in resilience, collaboration, and empowerment. By nurturing educators, we create a ripple effect that impacts students and strengthens our commitment to nation-building.
Building Lasting Memories: The Power of Presence
I spent a day today with my family visiting St. John’s Island in Singapore. The day was simple, yet deeply meaningful. Just being together, working toward a shared goal, and celebrating my son’s birthday reminded me of the importance of creating lasting memories. This time with my family also reinforced for me the value of truly seeing our loved ones for who they are. As a parent, I’m learning to recognize my children’s unique talents rather than imposing my own ideals.
Parenting, like teaching, is a journey of mutual growth, respect, and adaptation. We create memories that go beyond what we say or do; they form the lasting impressions of love, support, and presence.
Purpose as an Educator and Mentor: A Call to Action
Ultimately, the future is full of unknowns, but it’s this very unpredictability that makes the journey worthwhile. Life’s greatest beauty lies in its surprises, its challenges, and the lessons we learn along the way. We may not control every event, but we can control how we navigate these uncertainties—with hope, resilience, and purpose.
As educators, mentors, and parents, we have the unique power to shape future generations and leave a legacy that goes far beyond ourselves. Let’s embrace this calling with an unwavering sense of purpose, knowing that each life we touch moves us closer to a world filled with empathy, resilience, and hope.
A Note from the Author
As a lifelong educator and leader, my journey is guided by a commitment to inspire and empower others. The work is often challenging, but it is profoundly rewarding. I hope these reflections resonate with you and encourage you to pursue your own path of purpose—wherever it may lead.
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