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The Hidden Curriculum of Foon Yew

Foon Yew’s hidden curriculum was never in textbooks. It was lived in wet markets, fundraising drives, and banners carried with pride. At 18, I thought I was invincible. At 38, I learned that true strength is humility. The question at 60 will be: did we live without regret?
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Protected: The Math of Generational Legacy

Six disciples stretched me, but six is addition. Twelve is multiplication. Legacy is not built on numbers you manage, but on lives you multiply. Discipleship is messy, exhausting, yet full of joy. Easy has a cost. Multiplication is the math that outlives you.
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Forced Break to Move Forward

Momentum can be your best friend or your worst enemy. That is why I practice forced breaks: barbecues I do not naturally host, workouts I do not always feel like, pauses I sometimes resist. What feels forced today creates freedom tomorrow. Forced breaks are not weakness. They are wisdom.
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Why Effort Creates Real Joy

Joy does not come from shortcuts. It is born from effort, grit, and the daily choice to persist. Parenting, marriage, faith, even play all require work. The paradox is simple: what is hardest is also what is most rewarding. Effort creates real joy, and that joy becomes legacy.
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Hold Your Steering Wheel!

On the road, one thing matters most: where your hands are. Twice in two days I avoided accidents, not by honking, but by holding the wheel steady. Leadership is the same. You cannot control others. But you must own your steering wheel. That is responsibility.
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Mission Impossible

Time flies, legacies don’t. True leadership is not about adding followers but multiplying leaders. The 3M and 3C frameworks remind us: Choose wisely, Connect deeply, Commission boldly. The opposite of discipleship is not neglect but self-preservation. Multiplication makes Mission Impossible… inevitable.

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The Hidden Curriculum of Foon Yew

Foon Yew’s hidden curriculum was never in textbooks. It was lived in wet markets, fundraising drives, and banners carried with pride. At 18, I thought I was invincible. At 38, I learned that true strength is humility. The question at 60 will be: did we live without regret?

Protected: The Math of Generational Legacy

Six disciples stretched me, but six is addition. Twelve is multiplication. Legacy is not built on numbers you manage, but on lives you multiply. Discipleship is messy, exhausting, yet full of joy. Easy has a cost. Multiplication is the math that outlives you.

Forced Break to Move Forward

Momentum can be your best friend or your worst enemy. That is why I practice forced breaks: barbecues I do not naturally host, workouts I do not always feel like, pauses I sometimes resist. What feels forced today creates freedom tomorrow. Forced breaks are not weakness. They are wisdom.

Why Effort Creates Real Joy

Joy does not come from shortcuts. It is born from effort, grit, and the daily choice to persist. Parenting, marriage, faith, even play all require work. The paradox is simple: what is hardest is also what is most rewarding. Effort creates real joy, and that joy becomes legacy.

Hold Your Steering Wheel!

On the road, one thing matters most: where your hands are. Twice in two days I avoided accidents, not by honking, but by holding the wheel steady. Leadership is the same. You cannot control others. But you must own your steering wheel. That is responsibility.

Mission Impossible

Time flies, legacies don’t. True leadership is not about adding followers but multiplying leaders. The 3M and 3C frameworks remind us: Choose wisely, Connect deeply, Commission boldly. The opposite of discipleship is not neglect but self-preservation. Multiplication makes Mission Impossible… inevitable.
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